Saturday 2 March 2013

make up



My, my, make- up is deceptive. I found a quote somewhere which simply stated, ' women lie every time they put on make-up.' that isn't an exaggeration. After all, isn't make-up a face on top of one's face?
I don't mean an eyeliner and blusher; I mean the whole 'sha-bang', the transformed, 'you look like someone else' one. 

I watched a video on YouTube, where the woman had extreme acne and as a result had scarred face.
After she finished applying the make-up she looked so different! As if she never had spotty face.  I know that make-up is supposed to enhance your beauty but most of the time it gives you features and flawless skin that you don’t possess. That is just deception in my eyes. It makes an average looking person so exquisite and the pretty person extremely beautiful. You can contour your face, giving yourself cheek bones and slender face.

I find myself conflicted when it comes to make-up because whenever I have it on I feel as though it’s not me and that I am deceiving people. When people compliment me with my make-up I dismiss it, as they haven’t seen my face without it.  I also think that make- up is designed to give us low self esteem. Most people who regularly wear make-up feel ugly without it. As a consequence feel very insecure. I personally think foundation messes up your face, leaving you with discolouration and uneven skin tone, well on ethnic skin anyway.
  
People are free to do whatever they want but everything has a consequence. Instead of spending so much money on make-up invest in making yourself feel better. Masking your insecurities won’t make it go away. As a dear friend always says to me your beauty is your own stop comparing yourself to other people. At the end of the day, you are you and no matter how much you admire and wish to look someone else it isn't going to happen. So be happy with what you have. Confidence and contentment makes one beautiful.

Friday 11 January 2013

so cold

I was at a bus stop waiting for the bus, when a homeless guy approached me with the ever expected question, '"can you spare some change, please?"
i replied, "no I don't have any money." He looked at me with disbelief as if I was mocking him and said slightly angrily, " that's what you people always say!" I stood up as my bus arrived and I said ".. that's because you guys spend it on alcohol and drugs."
He grew defensive and got in my face and replied, "no I'm not drunk. I just want a 50p drink."
" you look very drunk to me." I responded, taking couple steps back as he got aggressive.
" I'm sorry, I don't have any money. I swear to God." I quickly said as I got on the bus.
He shouted, "remember you swore by God!" I felt so guilty because I didn't any money except loose change which was less than 50p. I contemplated on getting of the bus and giving him that little change, as I felt I was harsh and judgmental. There was no need to add insult to the injury.


I don't know his predicament and what he went through, therefore, I had no right to have said what I said. A friend of mine who works with mentally ill people, told me that many homeless people  have mental illness. It is a cold world, and it is us people who have made it bitterly cold.

shame on me. I thought I was better than that.

May Allah forgive me for being ungrateful and may Allah shelter the homeless on these cold nights. My heart goes out to the homeless, especially on these freezing, winter nights.

Sunday 6 January 2013

temporary amnesia

Don't contribute to the injustice that you cry ocean of tears which could flood the world. You cry because of the injustice that you suffered by the hands of people, but quick to forget now that it is you doing it. Is the person crying the same tears which you once thought would never cease? quick to forget when you inflict the  same crooked injustice on someone else. Or is that you seek twisted revenge on someone who never hurt you because you had to suffer, therefore ,why should others be spared? 

If someone did something to you which hurt you and warranted a complain, then mind you don't do the same to someone else. If someone didn't save you from that injustice, don't hesitate to save that person who needs you.


Be kind. There are too many selfish people in the world so that Allah the most high may have mercy upon our souls.